I wanted to say a HUGE thank you to everyone who donated to my
Aids Walk Phoenix Profile last month. Because of your generosity, I was able to
almost double my fundraising goal with a total of $180.00. The goal of our team
was pretty simple: to have 100 registered participants each raise $100. On the
day of the walk we had over 200 registered walkers on our team and 20
registered dogs. We were the second largest group participating in Aids Walk
this year (231 animal and human participants) surpassing companies like
American Express, Southwest Airlines and Safeway. We may have come in second in
terms of team size, but what we lacked in manpower we made up for in the total
funds we raised. Our team leader, Barbara Seville, asked our team to raise a
total of $17,000 in donations. This was a significant increase over the
previous years total and would certainly be a challenge to raise that much
money before the deadline.

You are probably wondering how much did our team, Barbara’s
Wonderful 100, raise and donate to Aids Walk Phoenix for 2011? Over $27,000!!!
Hitting and surpassing our $17,000 goal this year made it the 10th consecutive
year Barbara’s Team had at least hit her team donation goal for this event.

While talking with Barbara at one of the fundraising events for
Aids Walk, she told me about a woman, also named Barbara (I’m calling her B2 to
avoid confusion) who heads up another AIDS Walk Team named Team Rychard. The
team is named after B2’s son, who had died of AIDS back in the 1980s when very
little was known about the disease. Each year Team Rychard and The Wonderful
100 are either #1 or #2 in donation totals without exception. The two Barbara’s
sought each other out so they could meet their competition face to face and in
doing so have developed a friendship and a great deal of respect for each
other. The Wonderful 100 have been the top donating team for the past few years
forcing Team Rychard in the #2 spot. This year after both teams had finished
the walk, Barbara offered B2 every cent The Wonderful 100 had raised to Team
Rychard. The two Barbara’s combined their donation totals and under the name
Team Rychard donated a total of $44,206.22.

Thank you all again for donating to me, to The Wonderful 100 and
eventually Team Rychard. It was a great event and is something Justin and I are
committed to participating in every year from now on. Thank you all again. I
sincerely appreciate your love and support.

I am posting this for my brother because he asked, and because I am such a nice sister ;)

Hope you all are having a great weekend!

Hello Everyone!

I wanted to let everyone know that Justin and I are participating in the 2011 AIDS Walk Phoenix and while we may be on the same team, we are competing to see which one of us can raise more than the other. Our team is called Barbara’s Wonderful 100 and its goal is to have 100 people raise at least $100 before the walk that takes place on Sunday, October 2nd. For the past two years The Wonderful 100 has raised more for this cause in the Phoenix area than any other individual, team or organization so I am excited about being involved with such a successful team.
So here is what I need to ask of everyone who reads my sister’s blog…I need donations, big or small! You might be saying, “But how could I get the donation to you before the event next week?” I would reply by saying, “What an insightful question! Aids Walk Phoenix has made it simple to donate online directly to my personal profile which links to my teams page.” The link to my profile is

and as I said can pledge your donation from the secure website using your credit card. It will automatically update my fundraising amount so just will know just how badly he is being beaten.

This is event is kicking off Justin and my commitment to giving back to the organizations and charities that have really helped develop and strengthen our community. Donations can be any amount and I will appreciate whatever you are able and willing to donate. I cannot lose to Justin because he will never let me hear the end of it! Thank you for reading this over and after the event next weekend I will send my sister and couple of pictures as well as the result of our little competition. Hope you have a great week!

Christopher G. Hillery

I have held onto this article for awhile now, trying to figure out when would be the best time to post it to the blog. As I woke up this morning and saw the news and internet awash with images and interviews from 10 years ago, I thought that today would be appropriate.  I think it is a good reminder to us all about what life should truly be about and how we need to evaluate the ways in which we spend our precious time.

And She Danced
July 13, 2011by Estelle Sobel Erasmus of “Musings on Motherhood and Midlife”

My eighteen-month-old daughter, Crystal, and I recently attended a reading group at the library where the teacher asked all the moms and their babies to form a tight circle on the floor. I watched as the toddlers ran to sit on the laps of their mothers. My daughter stood a few feet away. I called out to her, and she strode toward me. Then suddenly, and with great purpose she turned around, moved into the center of the circle and began to dance.

I watched my daughter spin around the floor in reckless abandon, her feet moving in a wild motion, to some music in her mind. The music first carried her toward the other mothers and children and then away; I felt her palpable joy. I worried that the other moms would resent my child’s insistence on taking center stage, but I saw smiles on their faces instead of the disapproving frowns I feared. I marveled at the wonder that is my daughter as she moved. She acted so clearly in the moment. No worries, fears or thoughts for the future interfered with her actions.

Had I ever been that way, I wondered. If so, could I be like that again? Could I become as free and unfettered as a child with her whole life ahead of her, ready and willing to be the star of her own production?

I am Crystal’s mother but I already admire her fortitude, determination and intense desire to be recognized as if she were my equal. To me, she’s a complete little person who is already so comfortable in her skin that she draws people in with that very confidence. I suppose it might be credited to me and my husband. Some might say that we’ve instilled in her a feeling that the world is a safe place. Personally, I think she was born that way.

I have always considered myself to be like a kite, freer than everyone I knew, soaring above the ground powered by my own imagination. I was a writer and editor, with few responsibilities besides those of my career. Then I married and had my child. Over time, I have become as grounded as a great oak tree. Yet through my daughter I see my possibilities all over again. With purpose of mind and crystal clear intention she – and I – can do anything.

I fear for her, too. Will the vicissitudes of childhood knock her down, hurt her strong self-esteem? Children can be so cruel. I don’t want her to be bullied, but I don’t want her to be a mean girl either. So what can I do? Childhood is short and there are life lessons ahead to be learned. What can any mother do, but wish for their child a road easier than her own and hope to pave her child’s way along that road with the mortar of the mother’s hard-earned wisdom.

So I watch her as she dances, carrying my heart in her every spin, foot flourish and smile.

Dance, my darling daughter, dance! And take me with you on your journey across the floor and through the years. What mommy knows is that you’re young only once, but if you have the right loving support, you can be young in spirit forever.

Do not take one single breath for granted and ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS, ‘dance.’

-Dedicated to my little dancer who always shows me the way that we should all live our life :)

 

Love and reflection today and always,

Lisa